C'est La Belle Vie

A Royl Invalope

2012-01-27T10:17:00.000-08:00

Last night, as my hubby and I headed to bed

(after a long 7 days of single parenting for me - just picked up my better half from airport earlier in evening)

we found an envelope under our pillows.

Not just ANY envelope...a "Royl invalope" ;-)

To: you (smiley faces)

p.s. write back

Within the Royl invalope, was a very important letter drafted by a very important Princess:

1. Part of letter

Dear Mom and Dad,

Please Throw me a party. A surprise party like I wake up one morning and I have a new room and you come in with a tray of cookies and milk and yummy waffles. I'm trying better at getting all Trees (threes) on my report card. I love you so much. I will also give you a good massage.

2. Part of letter

I know how you like doing that.

Love, resposable (responsible) Ella

p.s. on my birthday Please?

What should our response letter look like? Oh my! :-}

*PaJaMa PaRtY DaY!

2012-01-26T14:31:00.000-08:00

It was our last ever pre-school *PaJaMa PaRtY DaY!*

Owen was sooo excited about this special day - he even counted down how many "sleeps" til it arrived.

He was ready to go with all his necessities in hand ~ Star Wars sleeping bag, Monkey, Thunder Basketball book, and a cool, green flashlight!

Here's the boy I picked up from school after such a wild & crazy shin dig:

I've always wondered what my red haired child would look like. :-)

He had tattoo's and was in "Super Boy" high energy mode!

Guess he loves a party like his Momma!

At long last...

2012-01-16T08:40:00.000-08:00

There comes a time when something *BIG needs to happen in one's life...

Saturday, January 7th happen to be that day in our oldest son's life.

My amazing 12 year old son Will received his 1st cell phone. We have fought this decision for some time. But, all the sudden it just felt right.

He is starting JMS Golf this coming week (need notification of pick up times, etc.), he babysits for us on whenever asked (thank you Red Cross Babysitting Bootcamp!), he has unbelievable grades, he almost always :-) tells the truth, the list goes on and on. In other words, he has totally proven himself.

Watching the *JOY on his face when he received the phone was priceless! (and his Daddy even teared up...shhh, don't tell!) We hid it in his backpack and called it from the hallway!

Yes, it is an Iphone. No, we didn't buy it. It was given to us by a super loving relative to give to Will. What a praise! All we had to do is purchase a data plan (of which Will pays off with all his hard earned babysitting hours - ha! :-) )

Will placing his 1st phone call - of course to *THANK the most generous donor.

(Update: I am sooooo loving the ability to call and text my son. I feel that it has strengthened our mother/son connection. We have such fun sending little love notes, playing Words with Friends, etc. It's been such a blessing so far!)

O's 1st Day of BB

2012-01-07T12:45:00.000-08:00

Today was my O's 1st day of Basketball.

As he tells me over and over, "I wanna play ALL the sports Momma...ALL of them!"

Basketball is the 2nd one he's tried...T-Ball is next up. ;-)

Lookie who's on his team - a pretty lil' girl!

We had one on his flag football team too...so fun!!

Their 1st game was comical! They were all mesmerized by dribbling...and the lack of.

Even 5 yr old's get a

*Half Time Show*

Then back to hoops!

and diving for the orange ball...

it was hard deciphering flag football from basketball at this point :-)

Big O & his BF from p-school held their heads high as they wrapped up the 1st game of the season.

Can't wait for next Saturday's court date!

NYE 2012

2012-01-02T10:02:00.000-08:00

Had my lifelong BFF & her fam over for New Years Eve this year.

Our boys were ready to *ROCK!

Yeah Baby!!!

Ella Bella was diggin' the *Slinky toy Lizzy brought

And baby girl was enjoying the art easel

Some Wii time was enjoyed

and then Dinner was Served!

Kid Table

Next up ~ we were summoned for the *Talent Show*

Gymnastics, Dancing & much, much More!

Owen appears from under pile!

Ta Da!

The Baby Queen entourage

Carried in style

Last, but not least...Just Dance 3!

Abby held on to her #1 position

Time for our 2012 Countdown!

*~*10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1!!!!!*~*

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Sleepy Girl's ready for night night

Feeling like 2012 is gonna be the Best Yet!!!

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

A Musical Christmas Eve

2011-12-31T06:36:00.000-08:00

*CHRISTMAS EVE*

Traditionally, Christmas Eve for our family includes the 5:00 Asbury Christmas Eve service, Mimi's house and then our own family candle ceremony at home in our p.j.'s.

This Christmas Eve service was a little more special this year...our own Abby was going to be playing piano during the service!

Because of this exciting addition, we had lots of family members join us this year!

We even had Aunt Lynn all the way from Austin and Meghan from Dallas!

My older brother Kevin and his family also joined us :-)

Time to begin the service. Everything, from the bulletin to the songs, are done by children.

So Precious.

Our dear friends the Bartletts lit the Advent Candles.

Abby prepares for her 1st of three songs...

Away in a Manger

her friend Hannah accompanied her on the guitar

Next up...

Last up, Silent Night while the entire sanctuary sang along...

Time to light up those *Glow Sticks!

Owen was double fisted

Cousin Grant gives our little musician a big hug

One Proud Momma

I love my girls!!

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Off to Mimi's Celebration...

Stocking surprises

Nike Elites

hmm...what's in there for me?

Uncle Brad's OSU Sweatband...niiice

Laura Dare Christmas Gown ~ just in time!

All things *Sparkle

Lil Sis gets cool Retro Toy

Stella & Dot...need I say more ;-)

Mimi with her Baby Boy

Aunt Gayle with her new Bridget Baubles

Uncle Cal & Aunt Cindy

Cream Puffs...yum

New North Face = Happy Mimi

The Girls

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

A Sleeping Boy ~

Will crashed on the couch while waiting for the fam to meet in the front room for our Christmas Eve annual ceremony

while the younger 3 set up a pallet

p.s. This was not part of "the plan"

Annual Ornament Gifts

Each year I give each one of my children an ornament that represents something special from the past year; then, by the time they leave the house, they will have a full collection of meaningful ornaments that represent their childhood

Owen - Football Player representing his very 1st sport ever played

Ella - a Schoolhouse representing being at a brand new school this year

Abby - a beautiful damask window adorned with a chandelier and dress form representing her love for sewing & creating things

Will - a Golfer representing him making the Jenks middle school Golf Team

Time for our annual ceremony. The 5 candles were lit by each child, 4 for them, and the middle one representing our Saviour. We then each (other than Owen) read several scriptures about "light," ending with Matthew 5:13-16. Each child comes and blows out their candle as we say "Will ~ you are the light of the world; let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."

This is my very favorite moment in the entire month of December...it is by far the most meaningful part of our family's CHRISTmas

Hearing my children read scriptures with all their heart represents what CHRISTmas is all about...anticipation. Advent = The coming or arrival, especially of something extremely important.

Christ came as a baby...and He will come again as our King.

I can't wait

Many a Merry CHRISTmas

2011-12-25T08:52:00.000-08:00

Christmas Shoe Balloons

2011-12-22T05:42:00.000-08:00

It was time for our 12th Annual Southern Hills Childrens' Christmas Party

This is something the kiddo's have looked forward to for as long as I can remember.

A yummy dinner by fireside

accompanied by a beloved *Shirley Temple to drink

(a rare treat for my Ruley kids!)

Owen at his finest

Ella, prim & proper

My beautiful girls

who I adore

Time for the Balloon Guy!

(always the highlight at this party - even over Santa, petting zoo, craft room, photo booth, candy buffet, cupcake decorating, etc.)

Preston & Will - proud owners of the evening's 1st Shoe Balloons

Boys retreat to craft room

little man figured out that he might just get away with eating two cupcakes & a bowl full of candy!

Success!!

Girls decide they don't want to be left out of the Shoe Balloon experience...

Abby's didn't quite dig her glittery Mary Jane - it ended up looking like shrink wrap!

Ella's held up though :-)

Annual Zach & Will cousin pic

(they used to be almost the same size...see what happens once one hits his growth spurt?!)

Ella & Matt cousin pic - I think these two look like bro & sis!

The youngest of the two Ruley families enjoy some horseplay -

Matt's arm cast doesn't slow him down

The girls go in for one last request...

The Triple Heart Hat Balloon!

Thanks to Grandad & Nana for a funtabulous evening!!

*Christmas Train

2011-12-21T07:14:00.000-08:00

When I got word from a friend on Facebook that the Christmas Train was having a half price ticket sale in November, I jumped on it! I have always wanted to take the fam, but had never had a window during the crazy month of December to do so. The time had come!

The kids got home from their last day of school for the year, and we told them to go get in their warmest clothes, along with a hat, scarf, gloves, etc. They were quite perplexed...and yet...SO excited! This was a super cool version of one of our favorite family activities..."Surprise Rides." Usually that would include a visit to Braums or a lunch out to a kid friendly fast food restaurant. But, today, it would incorporate a road trip!

It was so much fun teasing them along the drive. When we saw a blinking red light in the sky (helicopter), we asked the kids if it was Rudolph. I then kept asking Greg how long it was to the North Pole. hee hee :-)

When we arrived, the kids were still unsure of where we were...and then, we had a major party foul and found our envelope of tickets to be empty. I almost cried. Thankfully, their sweet little will call desk was able to look us up and re-print our tickets...can I hear a Hallelujah!!

(Here are the kiddo's patiently waiting while we got our new tickets)

And speaking of Hallelujah, there were old fashioned Carolers singing away as we walked in...aww, such a warm fuzzy!

Soon after, we caught glimpse of the train and decided to head that way first.

All Aboard!!!!

We met up with some family friends - Abby was giddy with delight! :-)

One of her besties from church had appeared

(yet another part of the "surprise"!)

The dudes playin' it cool

Baby L

And off we went for our Christmas Train experience...

After departing the wonderful train ride, we went to visit the most adorable little town...reminiscent of the old days.

Nothing says love like Hot Cocoa :-)

Seriously, if you ask my kids their favorite part of the 5 hour fun-filled evening, they will all tell you "getting hot cocoa". Somehow sweet, tasty things speak to my children's hearts.

Cocoa Joy

Strolling the town

The Arcade

In line for the Puppet Show

Hay bales for seats - so cute!

The show was a-dorable!

Time for a Wagon Ride while listening to The Night Before Christmas being read to us...another precious activity

The O Man taking it all in...

Last, but not least, little man got to ride The Elf Train

Choo Choo!

Time to say farewell to Dry Gulch

Thank you for blessing our family with your amazing hospitality, warm smiles, yummy treats, and most importantly, your creative way of sharing the True meaning of CHRISTmas!

Our 1st JSE Christmas Party

2011-12-16T07:18:00.000-08:00

Thursday, December 15th, 2011

Mrs. Cambell's 2nd Grade Class Christmas Party

This was our very 1st party at Jenks SE. It was definitely a bit different than the other elementary parties we have been a part of...I have never seen so many parents in attendance! I think there were as many big people as there were little people.

Ella thoroughly enjoyed her Holiday craft.

Meet Frosty :-)

Here's her friend Luke

- they have been in both 1st & 2nd grade classes together

His Mommy & I love that. :-)

And a few of Miss Ella's new frosty friends...Lauren & Caroline

Thanking God for our wonderful experience so far as JSE and looking forward to 2012!

Perfect Pairings ~ Proverbs 24:26

2011-12-11T05:44:00.000-08:00

An honest answer is like a warm hug.

Proverbs 24:26

*Bows of Holly

2011-12-05T07:09:00.000-08:00

After watching her older brother play the leading role in our church Christmas Program for two straight years, it was finally time to ler her own lil' light shine!

Abby got a role as one of the *Girlfriends - right up her alley!

Going over lines one last time...

Let the Show Begin!!!

My sweet Grandma holding the program

*The Girlfriends*

The Girlfriends with Pastor Tom :-)

And to start the show - the Joyful Noises - the 4/5 yr old choir.

The littlest Ruley proudly waves to his adoring fans.

This was his 1st time to be in the Christmas Program...and it was this Momma's 2nd time to have 3 of 4 kiddo's in the show!

I adore watching my kids perform...and this one - well, let's just say he's the easiest one to hear! ;-)

Proud Daddy

Time for the next one up...Miss Ella Bella's 7-8 yr old choir

Super cute!

And now for the "Big Kids" program...

Here's Abby with the *Girlfriends as they approach "Holly"

Autograph signing

Cheese!!!

Yippee!

Groovin'!

Costume change

*Operation Holly*

Abby is the most animated singer ~ such a joy to watch!

Diva Girlfriends

The whole gang (3rd-6th grade choir)

Ta da

Abs with Mimi & Miss Marty (the director)

Owen with our most beloved Grandma

Proud Mom & Dad with our 3 Lil' CHRISTmas *Stars!

1st Corinthians 13: Christmas Style

2011-11-30T20:20:00.000-08:00

"First Corinthians 13 : The Christmas Version"

"If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls, but do not show love to my family, I'm just another decorator.

If I slave away in the kitchen, baking dozens of Christmas cookies, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not show love to my family, I'm just another cook. If I work at the soup kitchen, carol in the nursing home and give all that I have to charity, but do not show love to my family, it profits me nothing. If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels and crocheted snowflakes, attend a myriad of holiday parties and sing in the choir's cantata but do not focus on Christ, I have missed the point.

Love stops the cooking to hug the child; Love sets aside the decorating to kiss the spouse; Love is kind, even when harried and tired.

Love doesn't envy another's home that has coordinated Christmas china and table linens. Love doesn't yell at the kids to get out of the way, but is thankful they are there to be in the way. Love doesn't give only to those who are able to give in return but rejoices in giving to those who can't. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. Video games will break, pearl necklaces will be lost, golf clubs will rust. But giving the gift of LOVE will endure."

(Thanks to Amy Barnes at Land of Fluff for reminding me of this awesome poem!)

Music that Moves my Heart

2011-11-26T07:18:00.000-08:00

Nothing quite moves my heart the way my boy does when he strums on his acoustic guitar...

Instead of his usual practice in his room, he decided to casually play at the fireplace this day...which attracted a little sister to his feet

and made for a very happy Momma cooking in the kitchen across the way

So thankful for his dedication to learn this amazing instrument!

(stay tuned...he is also taking piano now!)

Thanksgiving I, II & III

2011-11-25T07:03:00.000-08:00

What a BLESSED Thanksgiving we had this year!

Began with me and the Abby Lou getting a yummy lunch together on Wednesday

Then our Family Festivities begin Wednesday night!

Mimi's Annual Thanksgiving Dinner

That is actually Aunt Cindy you are seeing below. Having her in our life is like having a 5th G'ma...oh how my kids are LOVED.

Then there's "Uncle" Cal.

One Word: Keeper. We adore him.

The ladies in leopard

Our Hostess(es) w/ the Mostess

Uncle Bob & Aunt Gayle

They Rocked!!

Greg, Uncle Brad, & his 13 yr old son Zach - who I affectionately refer to as Greg's "Mini Me"

Strangely enough, I met my Honey just 1 yr from this stage...23 years ago!!

Our *Guests of Honors* arrive ~ John, Stephanie, Hudson & Lily

Gather together for prayer before feasting

Girl table

Boy Table

Hungry Hungry Boy!

Sleeping Beauty exemplifies what we all felt like doing :-)

Will shows Hudson the features of the Theater Room

Thursday Morning

Nana & Grandad's Annual Thanksgiving Brunch

Will loading up on pancakes, pigs in a blanket, and bacon!

Pinterest *Thanksgiving Blessing Mix*

Time to Dine!

Kids escape upstairs for some Wii time!

Will requests for his cube to be "mixed up"

and proceeds to show off his skills...and the boy's got 'em!

Grandkids gather for pic

girly grands

Thursday afternoon

Head to mid-town to visit one of my BF's from HS ~ Jolene

She welcomed me to sample her family's Lebanese Smorgasbord!

And oh did I ever!!

Thursday Evening

Oma & Grandpa's Thanksgiving Dinner

Oma showing off her youngest grand (Tanner) to Mimi

The three youngest g-daughters ~ Emma, Abby & Ella

The Whole Gang

(annual King Christmas pic)

Time to Eat!!!!

line 'er up...and Oma serves you up!

kid table

Two lil' dudes dine at the island

Friday Night

Mi Cocina with another one of my BF's from High School ~ Ashley

So much Fun!

It was an eventful few days full of family, friends & fellowship!!

No stress, no gifts...just wholesome FUN!

Indians, Pilgrims and 5th Graders...Oh My!

2011-11-23T17:35:00.000-08:00

My littlest guy's very last ELP Pow Wow

His Pre K 5 Class

preparing to beat that drum

The festivities commence

my lil' Indian

Next Stop...JSE for Ella's 2nd Grade Thanksgiving Play

They all did such a GREAT job!!

My lil' Pilgrim

So proud of my quietest one coming out of her shell!

Next Stop (and yes...all in one day)

JEI 5th Grade Colonial Days

Abby learned how to churn butter, have afternoon tea etiquette

and make a homemade game out of string.

It was a wild & wonderful day to be a Mom!

Just missed seeing my 7th grader - no more invites after 6th grade :-(

We Haz Jazz

2011-11-19T06:06:00.000-08:00

Monday night we had the pleasure of experiencing the fabulous Jenks Intermediate 5th grade production ~ *We Haz Jazz!

Abby played the role of "Cindy"

Jazz hands of course :-)

a lil' dancin

The Blues

swaying

dance #

speaking role

Taking a bow

Grandad & Nana

Grandpa, Mimi & Oma

Her biggest fans of all :-)

had to get a shot of these two in their matching purple shirts

Abby, Savannah & Katie

Jazzy goofballs

Mothers Fellowship Fall '11

2011-11-16T20:05:00.000-08:00

A most wonderful 29th year of Mothers Fellowship

(captions later...too tired)

Veteran's Day 2011

2011-11-12T19:44:00.000-08:00

Ella's JSE's Veteran's Day Celebration

Aunt Cindy, Mimi & I all fought back tears.

The older I get...the more patriotic I become, and the more immensely grateful I am for all those who sacrifice their lives for my family's freedom. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Girlz Weekend at The Fort

2011-11-11T19:14:00.000-08:00

My Abby Lou & I headed out to Ft. Smith (a.k.a. "The Fort") this past weekend for a Girlz Trip to see two of our Besties who sadly moved away from T-Town this past August. :-(

Just two short hours later, we arrived at their lovely new casa...LG was waiting in the yard to greet us. :-)

Abby & LG have been BF's since they were just one year old's!

Here's a pic of them at age 3 at their Dance Recital.

Our two darling daughters (dd's) immediately hit the kitchen for some baking - LG's favorite past time.

Little did we know that they decided to bake the ENTIRE box of pretzels!

Very funny!!

Meanwhile B & I settled in on the couch for some catch up time and a Pinterest lesson.

We are pretty funny too. :-)

Off to take the kiddo's for a Ferris Wheel ride...

They were SO excited they literally jumped out of the car and ran!

Little problemo - the ferris wheel had just closed for the season.

Bummeroo :-(

Well - it as still super cool to see it. Who has a ferris wheel they can go ride just any ol' time?!

And, gives us another reason to get back for a visit soon!

Dinner at Rolando's ~ a yummolicious latin restaurant in downtown Ft. Smith

Moi went for:

Lula’s Enchiladas-Corn tortillas filled with chicken and cheese with a tomatillo sour cream sauce.

And I plowed through at least 4 bowls of their unbelievably tasty black bean/corn/tomato salsa - I coulda eaten it with a spoon!!

Dessert at a family owned Mexican Ice Cream joint.

Some of the offerings: Sweet Potato ice cream, chocolate covered banana's and smore's bars.

Happy Kiddo's :-)

After seriously sitting in her parked car in her garage for at least 2 hours (out of habit of always talking for hours after an event in each other's cars), we made our way inside to get the youngens to bed. Another hour or so of chit chat and this cat was cold out on the sofa...my usual! :-) Time for some zzzz's.

After an early rising (another usual of mine) - I made my way downstairs for this...

a big, ginormous cup of Joe! I felt like Rachel on friends. Ha! :-)

(As you can see, we still had many a pretzel leftover from the baking extravaganza)

After an AWESOME time of worship at what they hope to be their new church, Abs and I had to pack up to head back to T-Town.

Easier said than done. We could not get these two to separate. We had LG in our car with us...the two of them escaped down the street at one point...ending with them holding hands through the car window as we drove down the street. As Boyz II Men would say, "It's hard to say Goodbye." :-(

Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetime, is certain for those who are friends. ~Richard Bach

Happy Halloween

2011-11-01T07:03:00.000-07:00

Will dug through the costume trunk and came up with a WOWSA of a look!

Batman meets Kiss!! (the band that is)

The younger three went for more traditional looks...Kitty, Captain America & a Beautiful Bride

but not always "traditional" poses ;-)

and off we go for our traditional neighborhood tour!

Our annual pic w/ the D's and the C's

girls

boys

Owen was LOVIN' every minute of it!

He wanted to be *1st in line and told me over and over how he said "Thank You"

the weather was just perfect - no coats needed!

Time to evaluate the Loot!

A Moon Pie was the biggest surprise!

Ella quarantined herself in the corner so there was no chance of someone snagging ANY of hers

(middle child thing)

and this guy...well, let's just say, he was THRILLED with his winnings!

After they each chose a couple pieces to eat & bagged up their goodies...it was time for our lil' characters to hit the hay ~ for school was the next day!! :-)

Green Lantern Party

2011-10-30T07:32:00.000-07:00

Owen's *Green Lantern-themed 5th B'day Party*

I've never, and I mean never known another little guy to be SO excited to be turning 5!

He literally counted down the "sleeps" until the Big Day arrived!

Pumped up

For lots of GREEN GOODIES!

*Super Hero Fuel*

Super Sister

and Super Friends!

(Who drove from Bartlesville for the special day!)

The Two Owens back together again!

Green Lantern Power activate!

Best Buddies Forever

Super Cousin

(Austin, a.k.a. "Spidey" - drove in from Edmond)

God blessed us with a beautiful fall day for all the festivities

Super cousin Tanner and Uncle Kendall take in the OU Game inside

Super Grandad with the B'day Boy

Fly Robin Fly!

Cutie patootie

Super Heroes snack

Green Lantern outdoor Movie

Toss the Green Meteor Game

Super cousin Jaxen, a.k.a. "Batman"

Super Friend

Super Iron Man

Laser Ring Toss

Ring Toss Winnings

Just a swingin'

Time for the long-awaited Pinata!

B'day boy's turn

The anticipation builds...

Round 2 begins...

Closer...

WHAM!

Candy Time!!

Super Group Pic

Super Hero arms

Funny Faces

Funniest Face :-)

*Happy B'day Time!*

Treat Time!

Yum Yum!

Takin' it all in...

Umm!

Slow & Steady...

Super Flight Game demonstrator by Super Sister #2

Green Lantern Go!

Nana & Grandad present b'day surprise!

Uncle Kendall cradles his boy

Green Lantern's Super Parents

Party Favors

Mimi

B'day Boy loads up on Kryptonite

and lots of super gifts!

No other way to put it...it was a SUPER PARTY!

Baby Boy Turns 5

2011-10-26T05:38:00.000-07:00

October 25th, 2006

39 weeks prego...can I hear a YOWSA?!!

Then a "Hallelujah" as the day of his birth FINALLY arrived!

I could not have been happier :-)

October 26th, 2006

The Angels sang and my baby boy Arrived!

Owen Isaac Ruley made his way into this wild, wild world

He had a Big Brother and 2 Big Sisters that adored him from the start

And a Momma who was giddy about giving her Will a brother

This little guy has been doted on since the day he was born

A few newborn portraits:

*Happy 5th Birthday Baby Boy!

(even though you sorta hate when I call you that).

You will always be my baby boy...forever and always.

Words truly cannot express the gift you are to our lives. Just as your middle name denotes, you were a gift from God. God provided an answer to our prayer for a 4th baby...and you could not be more perfect. You bring joy, fervor, passion, enthusiasm and lots of giggles to our home! You couldn't be more "boy", and yet still tender hearted. The perfect mix. I love you so.

Texan kind of Fall Break

2011-10-24T11:05:00.000-07:00

Our Annual Fall Break Trip...heading South to Texas!

Well, let's just say things took a wild turn about an hour into our drive.

I recall having to grab my door handle as my hubby flew through some twists & turns of a tollway...then, the next thing we knew sirens were on our tail.

Yup...Big Daddy got pulled over with 4 Nino's in the car...not good.

But -what was good? The kind officer gave the G-Daddy a warning. PTL!

1st Stop: Allen Outlet Mall

Kids favorite spot ~ The Rocky Mountain Chocolate Shop

Thus, the begging for the crazy yummy goodies begins.

I succumbed and bought the $7.00 *Rocky Road Apple for the 3 younger ones to share

and one little guy was especially excited!

After some afternoon shopping...we arrived at our home away from home.

The Stonebriar Embassy Suites

The kids negotiated their sleeping spots

and we shortly thereafter hit the Happy Hour downstairs

Guacamole, white chocolate covered pretzels & goldfish = Happy Kids!

Time for Momma's most beloved Asian Restaurant

Naan

Abby had her first Sushi! (and loved it btw)

Owen, well...he ordered a cheeseburger :-)

But sure did love him some chopstick action!

Greg went for his usual ~ *Mt. Fuji

While Will & I shared the most delicious dish on the planet...

*Tuna Tower!*

along w/ some salmon sushi - yum!

Just down the street from Naan, we indulged in our most favorite family dessert ever ~

Coldstone Creamery's

cake batter with brownie & hot fudge...YUMMOLIO!

Needless to say...bedtime did not = smooth sailing

Instead, it = lots & lots of trapeze artistry!

Saturday, October 22nd

The all you can eat breakfast buffet was enjoyed immensely

And the cool mom let her cool son sip on some not so cool decaf coffee

(he BEGGED)

Traditional stop at The American Girl Store

Miss Ruthie was treated to a much needed Hair Appointment!

Ella chose the fancy flip ponytail style

(I still can't believe I paid to have a doll's hair done...again)

Now that's one good Daddy to spend his Saturday of Fall Break at a doll store!

Mommy, on the other hand, is soaking up the fact that this is probably the last year I'll have a little girl who even wants to go... :-(

Giggled when we saw the name of this store :-)

Saturday evening: Dinner with the Fultons!

(another terrific Texas tradition)

These two, Abby & Claire, believe it or not...are only 2 months apart! Despite their size differences, they are two Peas in a Pod! They spent their evening making these:

And, speaking of cute...these two, Miss Annie & Owen,

had a blast playing together!

Kate & I have our fingers crossed for a happily ever after future! :-)

The #4's (baby boys)

The kiddo's played & played

& played....

until they were all tuckered out.

The evening ended with a very late night OU loss. (boo)

But a win for awesome family & friend time!

Sunday a.m.

Time to load back up and head to our favorite Texan church...

Stonebriar Community Church

with the famous and timeless,

Pastor Chuck Swindoll!

Girl (Emma) & Boy (Carter) Cousin shots

(Mason & Uncle Dan were still in Norman from the OU game)

As always, we had an Amazing time spending our Fall Break in our favorite get-away state.

Big thanks to the Fultons for hosting our crazy bunch & making us feel so loved!

Owen's 1st Choir Performance

2011-10-17T06:46:00.000-07:00

A day I have been waiting for arrived...

My gruff little sports lover boy had his very 1st Choir Performance!

I anticipated something wild & crazy happening, but to my surprise...

He stayed in perfect position and sang every word just as he was taught.

It was a precious sight to see his 4 year old class sing Praises to our Lord!!

Owen's siblings were so proud.

And Momma's heart was full.

Perfect Pairings ~ Deuteronomy 4:27

2011-10-16T05:50:00.000-07:00

Deuteronomy 4:27
The LORD will scatter you among the peoples, and only a few of you will survive among the nations to which the LORD will drive you.

*Halloween Party 2011 Costumes

Mimi's Birthday

2011-10-10T07:11:00.000-07:00

We celebrated Greg's Marvelous Mom's B'day on Sunday at Zio's.

My girls gifted her with homemade cards

and lots of kisses :-)

A ginormous hot fudge sundae was presented to the Birthday Girl

who then made a wish...wonder what it was??

I sure do love this lady!

She has been an amazing Momma to me since I was just 14!

I count myself as the luckiest daughter in law on earth to have her as my kids' Mimi

I've never met another who loves her grandkids like this one...her famous line is: "They make my heart happy" ~ and she means it!

I'll tell you who makes our hearts happy...

our Mimi. *Happy Happy Birthday Mimi*

May you have many, many more!!!

Perfect Pairings ~ Nehemiah 8:10

2011-10-09T05:26:00.000-07:00

There's nothing like watching your 10 year daughter full of energy, adrenalin & joy as she gives her all at every soccer game. It is such a picture of what we can be when we are full of His Joy...we can be Strong! And Satan will undoubtedly attack this joy because, if he can steal that, we will lose our strength. And without our strength, we cannot fill the passions that God has put in our hearts.

So, take a little time today to be filled with joy. A great acronym for how to experience it:

JOY - Jesus 1st, Others 2nd, Yourself Last.

"...for the joy of the LORD is your strength"

Nehemiah 8:10

The Grand Finale Daddy Date Nite

2011-10-06T17:52:00.000-07:00

I can't believe it's true...but it is Greg's very last pre-school *Daddy Date Night* (insert sad face)

All four of our kiddo's have attended this marvelous school, and all four have had two years of getting their Daddy all to themselves for this super fun & special evening!

Owen's been talking about this for weeks now...and the night finally arrived! Male Bonding at it's Best!!

Any man can be a father. It takes someone special to be a dad.

OU Girlz Weekend

2011-10-03T19:30:00.000-07:00

There is a first for everything...and a weekend away with my besties from college was WAY overdue! One flew in from Dallas, the other drove from Clinton and I made my way from good ol' T-Town.

Our first stop was the Chic Claussen Curve in OKC of which I highly recommend! We dined at Cafe 501 and it was delish!! We then perused the beautiful shops before heading off to our next stop...

The Outlet Shoppes of Oklahoma City

and boy did I have fun at Crewcuts - the J.Crew store for kids!!!

Following our shopping spree, we made our way to the little town of Clinton, OK where one of the 3 K's resides.

Her charming husband met us at their famous & cool restaurant, The White Dog

This is actually a shot of the Beanie Bar across the way...the restaurant sat atop a hill and had the most beautiful view of the Sun setting!

McCasland 510 - we will never forget you!

(Our OU dorm name & #)

And we arrive at K #1's Home. K #2 and K #3 (moi) are shown to the guest room.

After an amazing tour of her beautiful custom designed home, we headed outdoors for some reminiscing, singing & serious dancing! (I'm not kidding either) When you've been friends for almost 20 years, you can do these kinds of things with your head still held high! :-)

The next morning we arose to the most glorious smell in the air...the charming husband has put his culinary skills to work and prepared homemade pancakes for the 3 K's. And yes, I had many.

After lounging around visiting, we decided it was probably time to get ready for our evening event...the OU Football game in Norman.

1st Stop...our old stompin' grounds ~ The Mont

Their sausage & cheese Queso...beyond words

And their famous Swirl ~ YUMMO!

The 3 K's

(with some creepy guy in the background! lol)

Met up with some other Pi Phi's at one of the new hang out's in Campus Corner

Right before the game, we made a pit stop at another Pi Phi's hubby's sweeeet Tailgate!

Check-it-out:

A flatscreen, stereo, beer tap (if u like the brewskie) & even a microwave!

Game Time!

Thanks again to K #1's Charming Husband, we had front row Club Level seats.

Oh, how times have changed since our days at OU...the spirit in the air was of champion style ~ we happened to be there during their dog days :-(

Following yet another Sooner win, we headed to our hotel in the City. But before resting our pretty little heads, we felt the steering wheel head to an old favorite, Bellini's for a late night snack.

It was a weekend full of so many favorites ~ friends, shopping, dining & giggling!

Here's to my two K's - LOVE U GIRLS!!

Mini Me's

2011-09-30T07:41:00.000-07:00

The other day, I was just going along with all my usual home activities when I got a surprise visit by two very silly, but super creative little girls. :-)

They had decided to play dress up...but, not just any dress up today.

No ~ they decided to dress up like someone very close to their hearts.

They were so proud of their innovative wardrobe choices.

I have to say...they were right on the money!

Truly...like Mother, like Daughter. :-)

OK Girlz Weekend

2011-09-30T05:32:00.000-07:00

Believe it or not, but I am about to part on my first Girls Weekend away (apart from baby or Wedding festivities) with my two besties from college. We go back a looong time, and have a LOT of memories! From McCasland 510 (our OU dorm room) to being Pi Phi's together...we could laugh til we cried thinking about it all.

We are treating ourselves to a weekend of shopping, eating, slumbering party-ing and then back to Norman for the OU football game tomorrow. Crossing my fingers we'll get our hands on a Swirl from The Mont - our old stompin' grounds! :-)

Love these two girls!

It takes a long time to grow an old friend.
- John Leonard

FunFamilyFriday

2011-09-24T19:15:00.000-07:00

FUN * FAMILY * FRIDAY

(my Momma with Abby, Ella & Baby Tanner)

Friday afternoon we made a road trip to Edmond, OK to celebrate the youngest King grandbaby ~ TANNER's 1st B'day. My kids could NOT wait to see their little cousins...especially Owen! He and his cuz Austin are Buds!

And oh how Abby Lou loves her some baby!

She literally played with the B'day Boy from the moment we walked in the door to the moment we left.

And how could you not when someone's got a face like this...

Oma & Grandpa won the prize for best gift...

A personalized Cozy Coupe!

Miss Ella gave little party guests wagon rides

*Happy Birthday Dear Tanner...Happy Birthday to you!

Me & My Lil' Bro Kendall

Oh how I wish he and his family lived in T-Town...hanging out with them made me realize just how much I miss them.

My awesome sister-in-law Courtney

Owen the Pirate appeared later in the evening...always keeps us laughing!

Cuddle time with Austin before it was time to head back to T-Town

A little "Surprise Ride" stop before we hit the turnpike

POPS, OK

The kids' selections from the over 500 to choose from:

*Henry Weinhard's Black Cherry Cream, *Fanta Orange, *Americana Black Cherry &

*Ramune 567 Strawberry

The 66 ft Light Up Soda Bottle

Each night as the sun sets on Arcadia, LED lights transform it into a dazzling light show of Times Square-quality luminosity. An infinite array of colors and patterns.

One Fun Family Friday! :-)

Girls of Grace ~ 5th Year

2011-09-18T05:44:00.000-07:00

This is the kick-off of our 5th year of Girls of Grace.

Girls of Grace is a group of gals who get together to share a meal and grow their faith. If Bunko & Bible Study got together and had a baby...this would be it! :-) It's fun with a purpose! We share from the heart, we study scripture and we encourage one another's Faith Journeys. It's a priceless thing.

Acts 2:42

They spent their time in learning from the apostles, taking part in the fellowship, and sharing in the fellowship meals and the prayers.

(note: we are missing sweet Debra & Susie in this pic)

Perfect Pairings ~ Proverbs 4:1-2, 5-6

2011-09-11T05:05:00.000-07:00

{After two years of attempts, Ella has FINALLY learned to ride her bike...Woo Hoo!! This is all thanks to her amazingly, patient Daddy!)

Listen, my daughters, to a father’s instruction;

pay attention and gain understanding.

I give you sound learning,
so do not forsake my teaching

Get wisdom, get understanding;
do not forget my words or swerve from them.

Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you;

love her, and she will watch over you.

Proverbs 4:1-1-2, 5-6

{He also spends nearly every night patiently listening to Ella read aloud as she works to get in all her reading minutes. Love that Daddy!}

Perfect Pairings ~ Romans 15:14

2011-09-04T04:47:00.000-07:00

I wish I had time to go back through my 37,000 (seriously) digital pictures to find a picture of Will & Abby at almost the exact same ages doing the exact same thing - except I think Will was in a tutu!

As inconvenient as it was to grab the camera at the time I saw Ella & Owen do this, it was an absolute must...and here's why:

These two are not known for playing joyfully together. No, instead, they are known for having a serious case of *sibling rivalry.

I actually think deep down that there is an amazing love connection going on...and I caught them letting it all out!! :-)

This brought such happiness to a Momma's Heart

(Note: it's quite obvious Owen was NOT meant to be a girl...just ain't working for ya little man!)

Now I have digital proof of brother & sister bonding - can't u just see it on their rehearsal dinner video's one day?!!

My brothers and sisters, I am sure that you are full of goodness. What you know is complete. You are able to teach one another.

Romans 15:14

A Day He's Dreamed Of...

2011-08-31T05:47:00.000-07:00

Ever since my baby boy was able to speak, he has been dreaming of playing FOOTBALL.

I would go to get him up in the mornings as a young toddler, and the first words out of his mouth would be, "I play football when I big." We would drive by football fields, and he would say, "I go football game tonight." Even his 4 yr old birthday party was football themed...and he hadn't even played a day in his life. It's simply an adoration he was born with.

Maybe it's from his Daddy who played football all the way through senior year? Needless to say, The Big Day had finally arrived. The Cha Cha Slide came over the speakers, and it was time to run through the Tunnel!

*Owwwen Ruuuley!!!*

Surrounded by awesome coaches and a team full of studly little men + 1 little lady! (go girl power!!)

Almost time for kickoff...but 1st, time to salute our flag. Love this part!

GAME ON!

Run Owen Run!

And he's off toward the goal line...

still running...

*TOUCHDOWN!

The Giants v. The Panthers

Great Game!

The guy looking straight ahead is the infamous Uncle Brad.

He loves football. His boys play football.

He told Owen, "When it comes to the football field, I'M your Dad!"

The Ruley Boy Football Players

(Matt - 10, Zach - 13, Owen - 4)

The Kid Gang

When asked to look at the camera, this is Big O's response...

To succeed...You need to find something to hold on to, something to motivate you, something to inspire you. Tony Dorsett4 yr old birthday party

Proud Papa

2011-08-28T21:46:00.000-07:00

I love this pic...

Proud Papa and Son

Reminds me of our sermon in church today about the Prodigal Son...there's just nothing a son can do to turn the love of the Father away.

And every son is different...as shown by these photograph's :-)

We love embracing the differences in each of our children and seeing God's Great Plan unfold in their lives. I remember just yesterday being pregnant with this one. Oooh, the visions God gave me for his life. Something very, very special is in the works with this young man. He is going to great and mighty things for the Lord!

And on this very night of honoring golfers ~ we are SO proud of you William Gregory Ruley!

Never give up on God's Dreams!!

4 Kids 4 Schools

2011-08-23T20:57:00.000-07:00

The school adventure began with Jenks Middle School 7th Grade enrollment

Then we moved on to 5th Grade Jenks Intermediate Meet the Teacher

(Throw in a Jenks Southeast Tour + a Pre-K 5 Meet the Teacher + JSE Meet the Teacher)

Then we come to JMS, JEI and JSE 1st Day of School

August 18th, 2011

My Big 7th Grader - a boy that I am SO proud of! I've never met a young man so organized, responsible and self-composed. God has AMAZING plans in store for his life!

Princess Bella, a.k.a. Ella

She has a LOT of changes on her plate this year.

New school + 1st time without Abby by her side :-(

We are thankful indeed for how God has blessed each of our kids with fabulous teachers and friends!

Grateful that Ella is transitioning so smoothly...

and being loved on so sincerely by this precious soul ~ her 2nd grade teacher

Due to being in a rush in the a.m., we had to catch Abby's 1st day pic when she got home...just a wee bit sweaty due to 100+ temps! :-)

She's starting to lose that "little girl" look...and such a mix of her Daddy and I! His round face, my petite build. So cool to see how God merged the two of us in her!

Abby's new school bag that her sweet Nana got her!

(Man, makes my nylon Jansport from 5th grade look pretty weak!)

Big O's 1st day of Pre K 5!
Tuesday, August 23rd

His new Cool Cat Backpack

- praising God he went for this over a Green Lantern one! LOL

To kick up the fun factor - we added a *Super Owen* nametag!

This will be our 9th year at STB's Early Learning Program!

We started with Will when he was 4 and had just moved to South Tulsa - and we will end with Owen at age 4. So thankful for this Godly Pre-school!

Miss Janis and Miss Annie

I Loooove that all 4 of my kiddo's have had Miss Janis!

What a cool thing to have in common!!

4 Kids + 4 Schools = One, Wildly Wonderful Year! :-)